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What brain science says about long term LOVE

One of the greatest challenges of our time is to remain happily married for more than a decade. Dr Helen Fisher is an anthropologist who has studied the "brain in love" for many years. Her findings pair up nicely with those of couple therapists and psychologists specialised in long term relationships. Her methodology used MRI scans to look at parts of the brain that were activated when people were "in love". During decades Dr Fisher has been perfecting her studies and she has come up with a recipe for being happy in a long term relationship. I hope that these will be helpful for you at any stage of your life. How to sustain feelings in the three brain systems involved with LOVE Sex drive: driven by one of the most primitive parts of the brain. Cannot be sustained for more than two years on its own, so you must schedule sex regularly with your long term partner in order to create feelings in this part of your brain.  Romantic love: do novel things toget